What exactly makes a strong woman? Her struggles, sacrifices, and selflessness. A strong woman has endured pain, overcome heart-wrenching experiences, and has allowed herself to be led by forgiveness. This type of woman is self-sufficient, independent, loving, and has no fears of showing her vulnerability. The strong woman knows that one moment you are the teacher, and the next you might be the student. So, how does a woman like this keep a man?
HERE ARE 9 REASONS WHY MOST MEN CAN’T HANDLE A STRONG WOMAN:
A STRONG WOMAN DOESN’T NEED A MAN TO FIGHT FOR HER.
A man needs to feel wanted. He needs to know that he is fighting for the love of his woman. A strong woman will show you that she loves you, but she’s also capable of handling her own battles. The strong woman will fight for both of you, but she doesn’t need a man to fight for her. They don’t wait for a man to rescue them, they face their own problems.If you choose to remain with this type of woman, be willing to walk beside her, not in front of her.
A STRONG WOMAN KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS.
Strong women know what they want and how to get it. If she likes a man, she will go after him, she will make the first move. Strong women have tenacious personalities that can be extremely intimidating for some men. They aren’t submissive, but they love wholeheartedly. If they want to explore the world, they will do it, with or without a man. If a man stays with this type of woman, he would have to be extremely self-confident.
A STRONG WOMAN WILL REQUIRE HONESTY AND VULNERABILITY.
Men have a hard time opening up to difficult questions. Strong women dive right into the depth of hurt, traumas, and life-changing experiences. Since they have endured so much, they require honesty and vulnerability. They need to know that their mate can be available to travel through adversity. Strong women don’t fear the past. The strong woman will always find a strong man to stand tall with her during hard times.
A STRONG WOMAN IS NOT INTIMIDATED BY INTIMACY.
The strong woman will challenge a man in the most intimate of ways. She will require intimacy in all forms, from conversation to making love. Because a strong woman is comfortable with her feelings and she expects the man to be the same. She requires passion, desire and to feel like she’s the one.
A STRONG WOMAN CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH LIES.
Strong women are honest and expect complete trust in a relationship. She can sense lies in an instant, so don’t try to sugarcoat a white lie. Being in a relationship with a strong woman requires that there is no holding back and no falseness. If you can’t be with her completely, she will have no problem discarding you.
A STRONG WOMAN REQUIRES INTEGRITY AND CONSISTENCY.
Women who have inner strength cannot tolerate irregularity or indecisive personalities. They want to know that the man they love has integrity, respect, and is a man of his word. If they start to feel that their man is pulling away, they will have no problem letting him go if they feel they are being played. They want to feel like they are loved unconditionally. If they feel disrespected, they will have no issues setting that on track. The worst thing you can do to a strong woman is make her feel weak.
A STRONG WOMAN IS INTENSE.
A strong woman has endured extraordinary challenges and obstacles in her life. She has had to be extremely powerful. She knows she can endure anything else in her path, so this kind of intensity is difficult for a man to understand. It’s intimidating because of all the emotions that come with it. She is willing to share her scars, and expects you to do the same. There are no secrets in her world.
A STRONG WOMAN WILL NOT WAIT FOR YOU.
This type of woman will follow you to the depth of hell if she knows you are committed to her. However, the moment you start to pull back, she will let you go. She will not wait for a man to decide if he wants her. Strong women don’t play little girly games. You are either in, or you are out. They will get hurt, lick their own wounds, and get back up ready to conquer whatever is next.
A STRONG WOMAN WILL LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY.
The love from a strong woman is faithful. Just like mothers with their children, the strong woman will nurture and love her man fiercely. When she feels that love in return, she will do anything for his man. She will support him, help him, and fight for him. Some men can’t handle this kind of unconditional love, they get frightened by the intensity. Many times it is in this stage that men flee from a strong woman. And, just as deeply as she loved you, she will also let you go. She knows her worth.
BONUS: A STRONG WOMAN WILL SHOW YOU WHO YOU ARE.
It’s hard to accept the things we don’t like about ourselves when someone points them out. But, a strong woman will mirror those parts in her man that need addressing. She will be there to help show you how amazing and powerful you are. She will stand by you and show you worth, acceptance, and confidence. Some men cannot handle the emotional chaos that comes up with this. Strong woman will find strong men. The weak ones won’t make it past the first few dates. A strong man, most likely, was raised by a strong woman and will either deal with the dark night of the soul or leave. So, if you can handle the intensity, love, honesty, and conversations, you might just be that strong man who can complement this type of woman.
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